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A good Trust & Safety program is invisible

A good Trust & Safety program is invisible. It's invisible because neither the company nor its users are getting hurt.

On the user side, people aren't getting harassed, scammed or groomed, and they aren't leaving the platform because of it. On the company side, there are no regulator letters, no fines, no lawsuits, no ugly headlines, no advertisers or partners walking, and no app store trouble.

When the program works, none of that happens. So nobody sees it. That's exactly the job. It's also why leadership often finds it easy to devalue. With nothing going wrong, safety looks like a cost with no return, and it becomes an easy line to cut in a tough quarter, right up until something goes wrong.

The way to make it visible is to measure what didn't happen. How often harm actually reaches people, how many offenders come back after enforcement, how fast the worst cases get handled, and what users who ran into harm do next compared with users who didn't. I put the ones I'd use into a free, open metrics framework, 36 of them, linked in the comments.

Protecting users and protecting the company are the same work. How do you make the case for a program whose best result is nothing happening?

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